On Donating Blood…

Word is that the FDA has “finally lifted their ban on gay men donating blood.” For those of you who didn’t know how this all went down, you’d go up, fill out the questionnaire for men and whatnot, and one of the questions was “Have you ever had sex with a man, even once, since 19XX (I think it was 78, but I could be wrong…)?” Until I was 20, I always lied and said no, I’d go on in, give my blood, get my cute sticker, feel good about myself, and encourage others to do the same. I had … Continue reading On Donating Blood…

On Marriage…

I was in my car. Driving back home after a visit to friends when I turned on the news in my car. It was almost 10 a.m. and I waited…anticipating the worst. I was apprehensive, yet, had feigned for years that this sort of fight (for marriage rights that is…) wasn’t one that was going to impact me anyway. I was a little angry actually–there were so many other fights that needed fighting: trans* rights and protections, employment non-discrimination, the scourge of bullying and anti-LGBTQ discrimination in schools–and here we were, pouring millions into a fight that we were probably … Continue reading On Marriage…